Monday, March 31, 2008

Waiting and Growing

My beautiful girls...DeeDee (grand child), Kisty (eldest daughter), and little Trisha (grand child)!!!!
DeeDee at soccer.
Karissa in the green uniform and not feeling well that day before her surgery. Little Mary is entertained with a bug in the grass...ha ha.
Karissa gets a hug from her team mate and friend;-).
Karissa ready to play some ball!!!


Happy John!!!

one of our home schooling projects was bird watching and then using our encyclopedia to find out all about the bird or other animal we photograph. Here was a beautiful pheasant walking across our property!!!



Karissa is much better today. I am giving her a great deal of my time and attention. We are focused on her recovery right now. She was able to work a few hours on her school work today. Casey, Christian, and Annie worked diligently from their desks and Karissa worked while relaxing on the couch. I don't think I have mentioned home schooling.

We all love it so very much. The twins learned to read with good old Mom as their teacher and Casey has amazed me with how swiftly he has advanced. I can't possibly describe the inner satisfaction I have found in home schooling the children. It is so wonderful not to expose them to others who may not share my views and beliefs. I should have done this long ago. It is a huge blessing to have so much time with them. Mary and John-John just love playing together while the other kids do their classwork each day. What a toy mess they can make together...ha ha.

I think the most wonderful part about home school for the kids is that they choose which subject to work on and there are so many ways to teach them outside of the conventional lessons. We have made some wonderful field trips to places. Plus, there are so many educational programs for them to watch for social studies, discovery, and history. These also provide us with note taking skills, report subjects, listening and discussion skills. Pretty cool;-).

So now we are enjoying the idea that summer is near and all learning will occur outside the classroom. But, school will be year round. They have made their own learning plan for this summer, except Annie, whom I am preparing for kindergarten this Fall. We are planning several museum trips to Lubbock and a Wonderland Park Visit in Amarillo, plus several other places the children would like to visit. Annie will still have some book work, but, she just loves doing it anyway. Certainly, she will play outside for the most part!!!

Time is going by so fast in the larger scheme of things. My beautiful children are growing quickly and are getting so healthy. Christian is a very healthy child and has not been ill in a very long time. John-John is extremely happy and really getting the hang of potty training. He is taller than Mary Beth now and weights a ton!!! He has began talking in short sentences and can express himself quite well now. John-John has done remarkably well since coming home from Serbia a little over a year ago. Dr. Jasmina knew just the family he needed;-). She is a wise and compassionate lady.

Annie is playing soccer like her older siblings and just loves it. She is doing excellent with her CP. It is so mild that I really am not worrying about her. Her neuromuscular massage therapist and her chiropractor keep her normalized. And well, Mary is still "Mary"....our little TNT in a tiny package. She has such an amazing personality!!! She is so ornery..she can't help but to make me laugh at her naughty stunts;-). Such a "big" girl in such a petite little body. We call her liquid Nitro. She is amazingly strong and can scale anything. Mary is also very healthy and has not a smidgen of weakness in any aspect of her being. She is what all us "girls" would like to be...tiny, strong, and healthy....ha ha.

We have done bone age studies on her though and also have placed her in the care of a pediatric endocrinologist at Texas Tech Health Sciences Center. He believes she may be younger than we thought. Guess we will see with further testing in June. It is not too uncommon in IA kids. Her growth rate has been normal over the last year according to the doctor who has been monitoring her in Lubbock and her hormone testing is normal. So we will see what her specialist says about her age. It takes about a year or so to decide upon an age change.

The final good news with my precious Ukrainian Princess, Karissa, is that she may be able to proceed with her reconstructive surgery on her ear this Fall at Baylor in Dallas. It will be quite an amazing experience for her as she will hear in that ear for the first time. What a miracle and we feel so blessed to have this opportunity for her. It is a pleasure to be a part of such an important event for her. We give God the glory for His generosity in our life with our very special little children.

It is always a part of our prayer circle before we begin school each morning that the tumor does not return as it has on three surgeries in the past. This time she had polyps on her new eardrum and I understand from Dr. Neal that this is common. The doctor was very upbeat for her. God is good and we have much to look forward to in the future.

Please, continue your prayers for little Katie Aunna. We do not know anything at this time and can not say how long before we do. We waited four months for a court date for Annie, though we hope it will be sooner. Court is only held on certain days in Murmansk. So we are now on God's timing. In fact, it is in God's hands and on His timing. Many blessings to all and your continued prayers are gratefully received by our family!!!

Friday, March 28, 2008

Great News For Kids To Adopt

We have received wonderful news that Kids To Adopt has now been Hague accredited!!! This process is so extremely expensive and time consuming for them. Their dedication has been outstanding!!!! It has been in the works for over a year now. They certainly deserve it, as they have been so very wonderful to work with us. A big CONGRATS goes to Kids To Adopt and I know that all of us out here are grateful to them for bringing our families together with all their hard work. WHAT A TOUGH JOB!!!!! But, they have made it a Great job and well done!!!! We love you!!!!

Karissa had her surgery on her ear and it has been a success...Praise God!!!!! She has really felt weak with this one and just wants to sit in my lap with my hand placed over her ear. I think she will need some Mommy time. But, can't get much done like this. She has been in my lap since we got home from Lubbock this morning. She has taken her pain meds and is peacefully sleeping now. I thought I would use this time to write a little. Opps...now she is up and wanting me to throw down my computer. We are doing two things around here....healing and waiting!!!! Many blessings to you all and will let you know when I find out any news!!!!

Sunday, March 23, 2008

Easter Brings Hope

On the day, that we celebrate the risen Jesus, our prayers are focused on the hope of bringing our little girl home soon. I have received the document from the State of New Mexico and now await only two more documents to complete our court dossier. Hopefully, we will have those on Monday. It is only a matter of time now and Katie Aunna will be home with us where she belongs. I know, that each night she goes to bed, she thinks "maybe tomorrow my Mama and Papa will take me home". We are feeling the same here, that maybe today we will have the remainder of our documents to bring her home. Our prayers will continue to be focused on completing this process as quickly as possible and that God's timing will soon be fulfilled. Please continue to pray for Katie Aunna. We wish you a blessed Easter and a beautiful Spring.

Thursday, March 20, 2008

Monday on Thursday

This is one of those Mondays on Thursday!!! But, I have done all I can do for today. I still need three more documents to finish our dossier for court. It is so frustrating to wait for these last few documents. The State of NM owes me one document:((((....and in this document only the incorrect date must be revised. It has been two weeks to revise a date!!! The letter is already written!!!! Texas still owes me one document and it was not FedEx shipped as directed....but...MAILED...regular mail...untraceable. Plus, I need one certificate from our psychiatrist which we should hopefully recieve tomorrow.....fingers crossed.

All the other two pounds worth of documents have been sent off to Santa Fe and Austin. Guess I will have to send the others for apostilles next week. We are praying we will get a court date and can either hand carry these three documents or FedEx ship them next week. It is very frustrating to wait on other people to complete their part. But, I have hope, as we are very close!!! Keep praying for those other documents to show up soon and we will be in good shape here. Oh yes, and Karissa has come down ill and can not have her surgery until next week. Have a wonderful Good Friday. I am going to try and relax a little;-0......

Another Monday But On Wednesday

Mary Beth Playing outside today!!!

Today was a fair day this morning until the wind came up. Mary wanted to play outside so I sent her to run out some of that heavy energy she produces. She was obviously enjoying her self. I felt a little gloomy today as it was another Monday, except it was really Wednesday. I ran papers everywhere and chased papers as well.

Also, my dear Mama passed away three years ago today. I suppose my sister and I became orphaned on that day.....although we were adults when she died. My sweet little Daddy passed away on January 11TH of that same year, just a few months before she went. I think living without him after fifty years was just more than Mom could take. So, she went on home to my Daddy and Jesus.

One thing I know is that they are in approval of what we are doing with Katie Aunna and I feel confident of that fact. They were such loving people and were proud of us for helping little children have a home. In fact, they were a bit surprised we were adopting our Annie, but, two days before he passed away, Dad told me he was proud of me and then warned me not to "bite off more than I could chew".

I promised him I knew my child limit. He told me that he hoped I did as he knew how sweet kids are and it's hard to say that's enough. He also told me that he and Mom wanted to fill every place around the table with a child.....ha ha. So, although he may have acted conservative, he wished that he and Mom had done the exact same thing.

Tonight, I wrote to the translator in Russia. Maybe, tomorrow I will hear back some news, in regard to Katie Aunna. I miss her so much and can not wait to hold her in my arms once again. All of her pretty clothes are washed now and in her drawers and closet. Her bed is made and waiting for her to sleep in it. I have prepare all my favorite clothes of hers to take with us to Russia.

Karissa keeps begging us to let her go with us. She tells me that Katie Aunna needs to be with another child so she won't be afraid. I am thinking she may be right, as Katie Aunna might feel more confident, seeing Karissa calm during travel with all the new changes. They would probably enjoy each other greatly. I am thinking seriously about it;-).

Duane went and got Karissa's passport out of the bank safety box. My biggest concern is Karissa will need surgery on her ear this Friday and I am not sure how this will affect her ability travel in an air plane for all those hours. Guess I will consult with her specialist this Friday. Keep her in your prayers as she undergoes this surgery. I love my little girl so much and am so sad she must have her 4th surgery on this ear. Many blessings to all!!!!

Tuesday, March 18, 2008

Hmmm....Monday again on Tuesday

Maybe it's "Groundhog Day" the movie around here!!! Today was another running all day chasing paperwork, or on the phone, or the computer. It seems like an endless stream of required documents, but, we continue to persist and will do so until we reach our goal... to bring home Katie Aunna. I am just getting so hormonal that my family would probably like to get a hotel room...ha ha. Really we can't afford it right now!!! But, we continue to keep the goal clearly before us. Please keep praying for our documents. Although we are swimming against the current right now we are making sure progress.

Monday, March 17, 2008

Keep the Ball Rolling

The report for today is...I am still battling the paper jungle. I am a few steps closer as I have all but one letter for my New Mexico apostilles. Unfortunately, I am waiting for letters to come from our Texas doctors now and the state of Texas licensing board. It seems so much extra expense and consumption of time. However, the court dossier must include a letter from the doctor's state licensing board which says his license is current and authentic.

Of all the dossiers I have done for our international adoptions...this one is the most difficult. Let me say in big letters...Katie is WORTH it!!!! I would climb any mountain at this point to bring her home. The music to my ears is a court date. First, I must gather all the needed documents and I am getting closer to that goal. Please, keep praying for our completed court dossier this week.